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Hazed and Confused Ice Cream? Ben & Jerry’s Warped New Flavor.

We’ve heard about the latest scoop from Ben & Jerry’s ice cream.

And we flatout don’t like the way the ice cream giant has come up with a new

flavor to be called “Hazed and Confused,” the same name a Boulder (Co.)-based

beer company chose for its new brand just about the time Colorado University was dealing with the hazing death of Gordie Bailey, Jr.

Ben and Jerry’s is located in Burlington, Vermont, once home to Jonathan McNamara who perished in a long fall from a cliff during a hazing incident.

This isn’t the first company to make a mockery of hazing with an unfortunate ad campaign. Pizza Hut briefly did so, then pulled its commercial when public opinion was deadest against it. Snapple was worst, stubbornly keeping its web ads showing Afro-haired brothers in a compromised hazing situation with a broken paddle on the floor.

Activists Lianne and Brian Kowiak lost their son Harrison in an inane and deadly physical hazing episode in North Carolina that ended his life with a serious head injury.

They protested to a front office staffer at Ben & Jerry’s who tried to convince the couple the ice cream name was all in jest.

Oh really, what other playful taboo subjects are next on the Board of Directors’ drawing board?

There is a glimmer of hope in the air, however. After all, Ben & Jerry’s swears up

and down on its web site that it is a values-based company. Consumer Affairs

Director Wendy Steager today announced to the Kowiaks a new position:

Ben & Jerry’s Statement on Hazed & Confused

–The naming of Ben & Jerry’s newest Core Concoction flavor “Hazed

& Confused” is a wordplay on the term “dazed and confused.” The

concoction is a hazelnut-based flavor, and Ben & Jerry’s often connects

popular culture to its flavors, hence the pun. The flavor Hazed & Confused

and Ben & Jerry’s as a company in no way condone – nor support in any

manner – the act of hazing or bullying.

Ben & Jerry’s has taken a position to support equality throughout its 36

year history. Aligning with the Occupy Wall Street movement, standing up

for children with the Call for Kids program, and B&Js perennial and global

support of same sex marriage in the United States, United Kingdom and

Australia all demonstrate the company’s ongoing vibrant belief and efforts

to support diversity, equality and peace.

Ben & Jerry’s believes that hazing and bullying have no place in our

society. No individual, group, or entity should benefit by marginalizing


–Empathizing with those individuals and families who have unfortunately

endured the hardship of hazing, the company’s Global Leadership Team is

reviewing this issue at its next meeting.<b>

Here’s hoping that many of you for Hazing Prevention Week will send a stern

single sentence to Ms. Steager and the Ben and Jerry Board of Directors Jeff

Furman, Pierre Ferrari, Jennifer Henderson, Jostein Solheim and Terry Mollner.

I’ll let Lianne Kowiak have the last word. “As parents who have lost their 19

year old son from something so senseless as hazing, we would like to

see Ben & Jerry’s change the name of an ice cream flavor “Hazed and

Confused”. For all the families that have lost a son or daughter or loved

one to hazing and for all the individuals who have been harmed physically

and emotionally , and out of respect to them, this action would support the

core values and attention to social issues Ben & Jerry’s represents.”

The board meets in mid-October. Make your voice known.

Hazed and Confused?  Here’s my new motto. “We’re not buying it…nor any other Ben & Jerry’s product. Not so long as they put out that offensive flavor.”

Send a letter of protest to Ben & Jerry at

Then send a CC to Lianne and Brian at

Do the right thing. Pull “Hazed and Confused” out of production.



By Hank Nuwer

Journalist Hank Nuwer is the Alaska author of Hazing: Destroying Young Lives; Broken Pledges: The Deadly Rite of Hazing, High School Hazing, Wrongs of Passage and The Hazing Reader. In April of 2024, the Alaska Press Club awarded him first place in the Best Columnist division and Best Humorist, second place.

He has written articles or columns on hazing for the Sunday Times of India, Toronto Globe & Mail, Harper's Magazine, Orlando Sentinel, The Chronicle of Higher Education and the New York Times Sunday Magazine. His current book is Hazing: Destroying Young Lives from Indiana University Press. He is married to Malgorzata Wroblewska Nuwer of Warsaw, Poland and Fairbanks, Alaska. Nuwer is a former columnist for the Greenville (Ohio)Early Bird and former managing editor of the Fairbanks Daily News-Miner in Alaska.
Nuwer was named the Ohio Society of Professional Journalists columnist of the year in 2021 for his “After Darke” column in the Early Bird. He also won third place for the column in 2022 from the Indiana chapter of the Society of Professional Journalists. He and his wife Gosia, recently of Union City, Ind., have owned 20 acres in Alaska for many years. “The move is a sort-of coming home for us,” said Nuwer. As a journalist, he’s written about the Alaskan Iditarod sled-dog race and other Alaska topics. Read his musings in his blog at Real Alaska Daily-- and in his weekly column "Far from Randolph" in the Winchester Star-Gazette of Randolph County, Indiana.

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