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Hazing in the Philippines: One columnist’s story (Ramon Farolan)

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Excerpt:

We must recognize that there are two forms of hazing. One consists of ridiculing, humiliating, and even harassing candidates for membership in some organization, usually a fraternity or sorority. The other involves physical abuse and violence that may, at times, take a dangerous turn leading to the death of an individual.

When I was a plebe (first year cadet) at the Philippine Military Academy, I and all my classmates, were subjected to both forms.

Each day that I reported to one of my upperclassmen, my first action upon entering his room was to bow down at the picture of his latest girlfriend that was displayed in his wall locker. This was accompanied by loudly proclaiming her as the most beautiful woman in the universe. Then only could I address the upperclass cadet.

Now if you happen to be the son of a general, you would most likely receive some form of special treatment. When Gen. Fortunato Abat, Class 1951, was commanding general of the Philippine Army, his two sons, Victor and Tito, both entered the PMA one after another. An “Abat menu” was concocted by their upperclassmen. It was a special “treat” just for the two Abat boys. As an appetizer just before the regular breakfast meal, a cup of coffee was provided to help push the news clippings about General Abat through the digestive tract of the human body. According to the general, there was not much he could do but to “minimize newsmaking” in any form, fearing the consequences for his sons.

The other form was also part of the rituals, particularly when a plebe was unable to carry out certain orders that were given him. The rationale behind this action was to provide punishment for failure to comply with instructions.

In March 2001, fourth class cadet Edward Domingo collapsed unconscious and was pronounced dead on arrival at the PMA hospital. Two upperclassmen were charged with homicide for his death and were sentenced by the Baguio Regional Trial Court to 12 years imprisonment. It was the first time cadets involved in hazing were dealt with by a civilian court.

In the case of the PMA, a number of initiation rituals were adopted from West Point practices at the turn of the 20th century.

In his book “American Caesar,” William Manchester narrates some of the abusive treatment that were carried out at the US Military Academy. Plebes were subjected to “merciless hazing… any newcomer who refused to cooperate was subjected to a bare-knuckle beating by the huskiest prizefighter among the upperclassmen. Over a hundred methods of harassment were employed. Among the most popular were scalding steambaths, ‘crawling’ (being insulted by an upperclassman whose jaw was one inch from the plebe’s nose), ‘bracing’ (standing at rigid attention for long periods of time), ‘eagling’ (deep knee bends over broken glass), paddling, sliding naked on a splintered board, and running a gauntlet of upperclassmen tossing buckets of cold water on the plebe.”

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Rite of Passage in remote African village

Rite of Passage: “If he fell it would be a disgrace he would carry for life, Mr. Biwa had warned me. But the youth never faltered — the next morning he would awake a man, able to sit among the elders.”

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Hazing in the restaurant kitchen: then and now

Great column by Thomas Farragher on a chef who overcame the brutal hazing we are only hearing about the last few years in the restaurant business. Men used to (sometimes still do) insist the restaurant kitchen is a man’s domain.

Excerpt:

[Denise Graffeo in 1974]

In 1974, she was 24 and newly divorced. She lived on the top floor above that restaurant, working a grueling morning-to-night schedule, scarcely feeling sunshine on her face for six months.

 She carried 50-pound boxes of grease to melt in the deep fryer. She peeled potatoes, made her own french fries, and served club sandwiches on 12 kinds of bread.

“This was my first experience in the world where it was all up to me,’’ said Graffeo, who became the first woman elected into the American Academy of Chefs Hall of Fame this year.

“I was going to succeed because I would not let myself fail. I’m all pumped up because I had a cookbook from the Culinary Institute of America. It wasn’t much. But it was mine.’’  …..

…By the time she walked into the Ritz-Carlton kitchen in 1979, she was one of a handful of women working among 50 men. She also learned a valuable lesson: Never let them see you cry.

“Two years, I cried,’’ she said. “Always in the locker room. In the maids’ locker room.’’

She remembers colleagues who bumped her, who sabotaged her stock pot, who counted on the complicity of managers who displayed no sympathy. Her thick skin saved her.

“I had the Tap behind me,’’ she said, referring to her start in Haverhill. “You’re not going to kill me with this stuff because I could do the job. I wasn’t going to give them the satisfaction. I knew the sous chef who hired me had my back because he didn’t want me to fail because if I failed, he wasn’t going to look good.’’

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Parker Patierno in coma after fall from Cal Poly balcony after alleged fraternity partying

Parker Patierno
Parker Patierno’s Twitter photo

Moderator: I am waiting for news reports to confirm or to provide another explanation for the fall.

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Frightening moments for a group of Cal Poly students early Friday morning, as one of their friends fell from a second story balcony.

LINK: Carson Stuckey hazing death at Cal Poly

His friends tell us he’s in serious condition and in a coma. They tell us his name is Parker Patierno. We’re told he had have brain surgery Friday and is expected to have another surgery.

Friends who we spoke to were pretty shaken up – many of them preffering not to talk on camera.

“Yea he lives in our building.. he actually has a thing with one of my good girlfriends right now,” Cal Poly student Lauren Robertson said.

Ruby Tincup and Lauren Robertson told us that they had to break the news to that good girlfriend that Patierno fell from a second story student housing building on campus.

“It’s sad because apparently he was drinking with guys in his frat.. and that could be anyone,” Cal Poly student Ruby Tincup said.

Friends showed us a picture of Patierno and his twin brother.

“Like imagine being the mom getting that call.. that could literally be my brother,” Tincup said.

Students are taking the incident hard.

“My friend who lives near me is in his pledge class and everyone is just destroyed by it,” Robertson said.

“Parker is just so sweet, I’ve gone over.. he’s super cute.. big blue eyes, super nice, friendly, always holding the door open for you,” Tincup said. “It’s always the best people who have the worst things happen to them and it’s just really sad.”

Students told us everyone is rooting for him to recover.

“Everyone hopes he’s going to be ok, everyone hopes this stops happening, the hazing stuff,” Tincup said.

“We’ve heard that they were getting back from hazing and that’s when he fell off,” Robertson said.

“We’re just hoping he pulls through because that’s all we can ask for at this point,” Tincup said.

Sebastian Froman was just in class with Patierno on Thursday.

“It’s really tough because we just did a presentation together so it’s really hard to hear,” Cal Poly student Sebastian Froman said.

Froman, like everyone is pulling for a speedy recovery.

“I just hope his twin brother is doing alright.. his family.. I just really hope they’re there supporting him.. and that he wakes up soon and gets alright,” Froman said.

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Missouri Greek Life report: stunning revelations by consultants about underground fraternities

Moderator: My summary of Dyad’s evaluation of Greek oversight at the Univ. of Missouri. What oversight?

Here is some background before you read the report 

University of Missouri External Review Report October 24, 2017 Gentry R. McCreary, Ph.D. W. Scott Lewis, J.D. OGL External Review Report|